Do you have an anniversary date or special occasion coming soon? Have you thought about transforming your deck into a romantic haven with the soft glow of lighting? With a few simple touches, you can turn your backyard deck or patio into a cozy, intimate oasis perfect for date nights or quiet evenings with your partner. And don’t forget to add personal touches by displaying photos or mementos that are meaningful to you as a couple.

Add Romantic Lighting

Soft Deck Lighting

Soft, warm lighting sets the mood. Try stringing lights, lanterns, or candles in hurricane glasses. You could arrange tea lights in votives or mason jars around the space and on the table for added warmth. Protect the flames on breezy nights by placing candles in lanterns or jars, or opt for flameless candles for a worry-free experience.

String lights along the deck rails or drape them overhead to cast a warm glow. Enhance the magic by weaving lights into nearby trees and shrubs. Soft LED or wireless deck lights attached to posts and stairs also contribute to a cozy atmosphere.

Feeling crafty? Purchase frosted globes online, fill them with white Christmas lights, and place them strategically to create a warm, intimate space.

Bring Your Date to Life with Flowers

No matter what time of year it is in Southern Wake County, your deck can bloom with romance.
Arrange planters filled with winter herbs like rosemary, thyme, parsley, or sage, and mix them with lights and flowering plants for a pop of color. A vase of cut flowers on the table adds a fresh touch. Local plants like Hellebores (Lenten Roses), winter jasmine, or winter daphne can also be incorporated into your décor.

For an extra romantic touch, scatter rose petals around the deck and on the table.

Set the Mood with Music

No romantic evening is complete without music. Create a playlist of your favorite songs on Pandora, Spotify, or YouTube, or compile your own mix of songs that hold special meaning for you and your partner. You could add a small water feature or soft background music that can enhance the atmosphere. Use a Bluetooth speaker or an Echo device to provide the perfect soundtrack for your intimate conversation or slow dance.

Get Cozy

Even if the weather is a little chilly you can still enjoy your deck by making it cozy and inviting. Add comfortable cushions, throws, blankets, and rugs—think flannel, fleece, wool, or cashmere for a touch of luxury.

Use plants, curtains, or a trellis to create a secluded feel. If space allows, consider adding a romantic hammock for two. Outdoor heating options like a firepit, chiminea, portable space heater, or heating mat can keep you warm as you enjoy the fresh air.

Depending on the time of year you may want to add a windscreen, shade sails, or curtains to your deck to help block the wind and create a more private, intimate space. For a simple DIY deck curtain solution, check out this guide: DIY Floating Outdoor Curtains.

Customizing your deck with a pergola or covered area can provide a cozier environment and a place to hang lights and curtains. Snuggle up and enjoy the evening!

Delight with a Special Menu

Set the table with elegant linens and colorful accents. Consider an iced bucket of champagne, or perhaps a hot chocolate spiked with Baileys, warm spiced wine, or a special coffee brew.

Sharing a fondue is a romantic way to start the meal, and since you’re outdoors, you can easily fire up the grill or use your outdoor kitchen to cook up some delicious steaks.

No matter how you choose to decorate, celebrating special occasions on your deck is a wonderful way to create lasting memories. Why not make these romantic touches a year-round tradition?

Let us help you to create those memories by building or adding on to your deck, customized for your special times. Call us 919-346-0678.